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Re: Wow!

 
Sun 12/6/2020 6:35 PM
 
John, IV
 
I’ve also wondered about you being John P Elcik V.  I saw both of these attachments on Ancestry and have had questions for a while now.  

 
My theory is St. Cyril Methodist, and St. Cyril Methodius are the same Catholic church, the other being Holy Family.  The different spelling doesn’t change the location of the cemetery.  When those obits were written, it may have been a misspelling, or it may have been spelled that way.  
 
Another thing Earl at the HS said is there may not be a headstone.  I can’t wait to see the map when we finally get to the HS.  That should give us a lot more information.
 
Beth
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Thursday, December 17, 2020, 10:35 PM

John,

We have the family here for Christmas Eve, and on Christmas Day, we’ll go to our daughter Loni’s house.  Derek has moved to a mobile home, and his children, our grandchildren, will be with their mother this year.

I love the puppy’s new name.  FYI, Tinker Belle was and always will be my favorite Disney character.  Pam and Michelle will be happy to hear that, you, not so much!!!

Beth

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Thu 12/17/2020 10:35 PM
 
John, IV,

 
We have the family here for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day we’ll go to our daughter, Loni’s house.  Derek has moved to a mobile home, and his children, our grandchildren, will be with their mother this year.  
 
I love the puppy’s new name.  FYI, Tinker Belle was and always will be my favorite Disney character.  Pam and Michelle will be happy to hear that, you, not so much!!!
 
Beth
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Re: FYI

 
Thu 12/17/2020 10:25 PM
 
John, IV,
 
LOL, I’ve never heard the poke in the eye theory before!!!

 
Now I know what you’re talking about.  I went to someone’s profile on Ancestry, and it works great.  I’ve never done that before, but I’ll definitely be using that in the future. 
 
Thanks for the tip.  I haven’t been on Ancestry too much lately but will get back to it after the holidays.  I just renewed my membership for another year.  
 
I’ve also talked to Dot, the president at the Historical Society, and am working on filing the Sale and Use Tax for the State of Maine for the Society.  We haven’t sold anything this year because of COVID, but I believe we still have to file a return.  I do it electronically, which is easy to do.  That’ll be my priority once the holidays are over.  I’m hoping I can convince her to let me go to the Society and look for Hillside and St. Cyril cemeteries’ maps.  Not sure how she’ll feel about that because COVID is spiking in Maine right now, and she’s been overly cautious about going out in public.  
 
We got a foot of snow today, and it’s beautiful outside.  It’s freezing, which makes the snow light and fluffy and easy to shovel.  We have our neighbor plow our driveway, thankfully, but we still have to clear our steps and front and back porches.  That’s on tomorrow’s list of “things to do.”   There were lots of closings and parking bans everywhere.  We will definitely have a white Christmas!!! 
 
Since we have lots of snow, I won’t be able to go to the cemeteries until Spring.  I think I have most if not all the Elcik and Byras gravestone pictures, but I won’t know for sure until I see the maps at the HS.  I’m very anxious to look at them, but that may have to wait for a while.
 
I’ll do that as soon as I’m able to do so. 
 
Beth
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Re: It’s All About the Name

Sat 12/19/2020 11:17 PM
John, IV,
I LOVE this letter, and I LOVE your writing style.  I love to read; you love to write, so we make a good pair!!!  Obviously, your family wants to keep first family names going in each generation.  That’s interesting because we named our children Loni Beth Gamache and Derek John Gamache.
I have 3 brothers.  My oldest brother’s name is Carl Russell Purinton, and he named his son Russell Purinton (I don’t know his middle name).  My grandfather’s name was Carl Russell Purinton.  My second oldest brother’s name is Lewis Goddard Purinton.  My great grandfather on my mother’s side was Lewis Benson Goddard.  My name is Elizabeth Leola Purinton.  My mother’s sister’s name was Leola, and my father’s 1st cousin’s name was Elizabeth.  My youngest brother’s name is Allan Norman Purinton.  My father’s name was Norman Allan Purinton.
Knowing your family’s decision to naming your children, etc., I understand trying to stay with family names and passing them on to the next generation.  As I read your letter to Jeff, I was shaking my head, acknowledging our family did the same thing.
My theory is most families did that, especially after doing family research on Ancestry and ESPECIALLY the Elcik family.   That’s one of the reasons we’ve been having so much difficulty trying to figure out who’s who to say nothing about records being destroyed, which makes it impossible to locate documents before they came to this country.
I’ve said this before; I had the same problem with the Purinton family with so many Humphrey Purintons marrying women named Thankful (there were 3 consecutive generations of them).  Not only that, several of them named their daughters Thankful, further confusing me when they got married and their last names were different.

I found your letter to Jeff very interesting and fun to read, albeit confusing at times because I don’t know your family like I do mine.  I even chuckled a few times as I was reading it.  It was a source of entertainment for me, and I mean that in a very good way.

Thanks for sharing it with me.

Beth