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Hearing Aids


Aug 8, 2020, at 4:45 AM

Everyone,

I’m crazy. Or so I thought.

Now I know that I’m merely freaking out. Yesterday I got hearing aids only to have my peaceful world shaken up big time. My office chair squeaks. Not a little, a lot. I’m not sure if a can of WD-40 will fix this. Ouch! Worse yet, my keyboard makes loud noises when I type. Who knew? I sure didn’t. Annoying at best.

I live in Florida, and I wear flipflops instead of shoes. People miles away must know when I’m coming towards them. My daughter Michelle is laughing at me. She says she could have told me this one. Wow!

I may have to take the day off and smell the roses, listen.

John, IV

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Summary of Research Findings


Sun 8/9/2020 3:08 PM

Family,

I have put together this summary of the ancestry research findings:

I know it was two not three waves of Elcik immigration to Maine.

  • John Elsik (1866-1941) married Mary Pelcarsky (1875-1936) through whom I (IV), Dad (III), and John (Jr.) descended. In the 1910 Census, John Elsik identified his surname as Elsik. Elcik is the spelling used for the rest of the family. John immigrated in 1891 and Mary in 1896. Ancestry and I agree that John Elsik is my great-grandfather.
  • John Elcik (1886-1982) was married to Mary Jeho Zena Jonek (1887-1951). John immigrated in 1905, and Mary immigrated a year later in 1906. He came to America through Ellis Island, and the name was changed to Elcik from Ilcik, as told to his grandson. His son, Andrew J. Elcik (1911-1995), married Jeannie Pascarella through whom many of the “New York” Elcik’s descended. This family includes my “New York” contact: John Elcik.

I now know for sure that there is a connection between the New York Elcik’s and us. [Thank you, Beth.] Their George Elcik (in the 1920 Census) married Jack’s father’s sister Anna Gamache. The John Elcik, who I have corresponded with via Facebook and email, is related to me as “grand-nephew of husband of sister-in-law of aunt.” A real tongue twister.

I still believe the two families are more directly related, if and when we can “jump the pond” to Europe. We all come from Western Europe (Austria/Hungry/Slovakia), spoke Slovak, and have a Catholic heritage.

The three Elcik brothers (John, Jim, and Jeff) are the fourth generation in America and directly descended from the first 1891/1896 wave.

I now know the spelling history of the surname from Elsik, Elcik, Elick, and back to Elcik. There are also apparent misspellings: Elcih.

I know that there are different spellings of Pelcarsky. Pelcarsky is the spelling as recalled by George Karkos, who was married to Annie, one of Mary’s daughters. Pelcarsky spelled as Pelesaky (on Michael’s Record of Marriage), or Pelchascay (on John’s Record of Marriage) to mention two.

John Elcik, Jr. (my grandfather) was married a second time to Helen Mosko. This marriage was not revealed to me (even when I asked my father) for reasons I may never know. A “mystery” letter from Aunt Gertrude, located by Jeff, addressed to “kids” that references Helen’s immigration status and the waiting for checks.

I now have some priceless photos and letters to add to our family tree:

  • A 1951 photo my grandfather thanks to Jeff, Jack, Beth, and Nancy
  • A wedding photo of my grandfather and grandmother thanks to Mark
  • A wedding photo of Aunt Gertrude and Uncle Norman thanks to Becky
  • Quality photos of family gravesites thanks to Beth
  • Chapman Cottage is the name of the B&B once the Lucas home, thanks to Janet.
  • Wanda’s letter with the words to the Slovak song my Dad sings from Becky
  • Family photos and letters from Jeff

I found evidence that John Elsik (my great-grandfather) had a brother Joseph. The Elsik spelling of the surname is just one of several links I found. Also, Beth sent me a photo of Joseph’s gravestone, which was helpful.

I now believe that the reason I never knew of or met my Aunt Mary is that she moved to Corpus Cristi, Texas. Jeff suggests this possibility.

In addition to the New York Elcik’s (Ilcik), there are Texas Elcik’s (Elsik) to be researched. There is even a high school in Huston, Texas named after an Elsik.

My thanks to everyone who has helped with this update of the 2008 “My Cousins” tree.

But a special thank you to Beth. She has enthusiastically shared in my craziness for several weeks now.

All my love,

John, IV

P.S. Guest privileges will continue forever at Ancestry.com for all who are interested. If you need the invite for the family tree to be resent or want to gain access for someone else, let me know. My World Explorer subscription to Ancestry.com is expiring, so Internet updates will be less frequent as I first record them locally with Family Tree Maker.

P.P.S. Nancy is putting together additional items for me. And if anyone else has more to offer, well, I will be grateful.

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Questions for You, Please Help


Wed 8/12/2020 9:11 AM

John (NY),

I have found a public birth record for John J. Elcik with the date 22 DEC 1931. I know your dad’s birthday was 05 AUG 1943. With just 12 years separating the two John J.’s can you place the second John J.?

Also, I have a list of New York Elcik’s that I can’t tie to any branch of our family tree. Would you have information on:

  • Andrew J. Elcik – 20 NOV 1911
  • Christine C. Elcik – 25 AUG 1964
  • Deborah A. Elcik – 03 JAN 1968
  • Elizabeth M. Elcik – 16 SEP 1933
  • Francis Elcik – 04 May 1933
  • James (J./G.) Elcik – 06 AUG 1965
  • Janine V. Elcik – 18 JUL 1968
  • Lynne M. Elcik – 02 APR 1969
  • Nancy J. Elcik – 24 SEP 1967

I’ve attached PDF files for all of the above.

No rush. Any help you can provide would be welcome.

John, IV

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Are John Ilcik and John Elsik Cousins?


Wed 8/12/2020 9:22 AM

John (NY)

First, I’m glad we found the George Elcik/Anna Gamache family connection.

I still believe there is a direct family relationship between John Ilcik (1886-1982) and John Elsik (1866-1941), our direct ancestors. Given the 20 years that separated the two, I suspect the relationship between these two is cousins.

To prove this will require access to records in Austria-Hungary. Ancestry wasn’t much help, The Family Tree Search Engine, however, sponsored by the Church of Latter-day Saints, has produced a few leads.

I’ll keep you posted.

John, IV