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How Many Elcik’s Are a Lot?

 

Thu 10/22/2020 1:17 PM

Beth & Eugene,

I’m beginning to question if DNA will help break the wall between our European ancestors and us.

Beth, I told Eugene that there are a lot of us, Elcik’s. I may have been optimistic, however. At the time, I perceived there was a lot based on Google searches. But what number constitutes “a lot”?

I have found a website (forebears.io) that provides a fascinating picture of the distribution of the Family surname by country.  Keep in mind that there are at least 3 viable spellings of the Elcik surname to research.  And then there is Turkey, where Elcik may be pronounced differently.  It also had a specific meaning, i.e., it translates as “zipper.”

The following four links are of interest.

  • Slovakia (14), Czechia (1), Elčík Surname Origin, Meaning & Last Name History: Elcik
  • U.S. (240), Hungary (120), Austria (14), Elsik Surname Origin, Meaning & Last Name History: Elsik
  • Czechia (192), Slovakia (155), Ilčík Surname Origin, Meaning & Last Name History: Ilcik
  • Turkey (1,274), Elçik Surname Origin, Meaning & Last Name History: Elcik

I question whether DNA databanks will have many or any of our European ancestors in them with these numbers.  Add this to Eugene’s finding that the Nazi party destroyed most of Europe’s records, and our prospects are slim. He is right. The church kept records of birth, baptism, marriage, and death. Without their records, DNA, I thought, would be the ideal choice. Ouch!

A DNA test may not help us find European “cousins.” If, however, I can get one of the descendants of John Ilick to take the test with me, other information is possible. A secondary goal of my research has always been to see if we can connect the Ilcik and Elsik families.

  • John Elsik (1866-1941) is the preferred spelling of my Great-grandfather.
  • John Ilsik (1886-1962) is the preferred spelling of John Elcik’s (Rocky Point, NY) Great-grandfather.

A Y-111 test is the best DNA test to consider. It is designed specifically to confirm Y-chromosome matching between two living men. It is $250 each, i.e., more expensive than other DNA tests, so there may not be mutual interest in taking the test. I didn’t agree to it in 2009 when Judy (my friend and DNA expert) asked me to do it.  My mistake! I will reach out to Brian, John, Robert, and Stephen on Ancestry.com’s new messenger service to see who might be interested in he is interested.  But no social pressure. Lol.

Either way, I intend to take the $99 autosomal DNA test from Ancestry.com at the end of the year when it goes on sale for 40% off. Judy, my friend with Polish ancestors, is hoping it will establish a stronger family link between her and us. She no longer has access to male DNA for testing. Her initial DNA sample came from her deceased father’s hearing aids.  It suggested a link, but a more expensive test was recommended, and I wasn’t ready.  So, this is our best chance for her and me. This is the only DNA test that Ancestry.com supports for use with its Family Tree website.

I hope this will generate some interest. Here is to hope!

Regards,

John, IV

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Ancestry.com’s Messaging Platform

 
Tue 11/10/2020 12:54 PM
 
Beth,
 
I think 3 Ilcik-Elcik’s males are on Ancestry.com’s messaging platform: Brian, John, Robert, and Stephen.  
 
I’m reaching out to them to share what I am doing to encourage interest in the Elcik family history.
 
The following text is generically what each received with some personalization added to each message.
 
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Greetings,
 

I’m working on Genealogy brick wall scenarios related to the Elcik surname.

Two families came to America in the late 1888s or early 1900s. Today both families share the Elcik surname, Slovak heritage, and a Catholic background. Back then, the surnames were Elsik and Ilcik.
 
⦁ John Elsik (1866-1941) was married to Mary Pelcarsky (1875-1936). John immigrated to America in 1891, and Mary immigrated in 1896.
⦁ John Ilcik (1886-1982) was married to Mary Jeho Zena Jonek (1887-1951). John immigrated to America in 1905, and Mary immigrated a year later in 1906
 
I believe that there is a family relationship linking John Elsik to John Ilcik.
Finding the link has proven difficult as the church records in Europe most likely were destroyed in World War II.  
 
John Elsik (1866-1941) is my Great Grandfather.  
 
One possibility for finding the link between the two families is through a DNA test between two males, one from each family.
 
I’m looking to identify someone from the Ilick family who has or is willing to take a DNA test and share data.  There are two options: Ancestry.com is currently offering a 40% discount on its $99 test. It might be helpful. The better option when you seek a match between two living men is a Y-111 test. Admittedly, this is expensive at $250 for each participant.  
 
This is a chance to make history within the Elcik family. If you know someone who might be interested, please contact me. I’m looking for a hero. ?
 
Also, let me know if you want to be kept informed about the Elcik Family Tree. It is called My Cousins and includes data for both families. The tree has 2,650 people, 1,399 Photos, and 140 LifeStories. Access is by invitation only.  I’ll send one upon request.
 
Warmest regards,
Dr. John Paul Elcik, IV
Fort Myers, Florida
johnelcik@msn.com

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I will send a shorter but similar outreach message to the females on the Messaging service: Christine, Janie, Jessica, Kaitlyn, Kathryn, Marcie, Nancy. Primary, I’m limiting outreach to those spelling our surname Elcik. As you might expect, none are using the Ilcik spelling. 
I hope to gain additional interest in our family history. Here’s to hope!
 
John, IV
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Flash Drive Mailed

Tue, Nov 10, 2020, at 12:57 PM
Beth,
I sent the flash drive in yesterday’s outgoing mail.  Enjoy!
John, IV

November 18, 2020, 10:56 PM

John, IV

I received the flash drive yesterday but haven’t had a chance to look at it yet.  Thank you for that and also thank Pam for all the cards she’s sent me.  

I had a Dr. appt. with my cardiologist today with many questions bothering me.  One of the new meds that I need to take for 30 days to prevent chest pain gives me a headache, which was a big concern for me.  He reassured me it’s normal and should stop once I stop the medication.  It’s very important to continue taking it, which I will definitely do.
I will upload the information on the flash drive I send back to you in time.  This latest medical issue has set me back a bit and also the weeks leading up to it.  The fatigue I feel is a bit overwhelming, but Dr. reassured me that too will improve in the future.  Jack and I started walking yesterday for the first time in quite a while, which felt SO good to do that without chest pain and shortness of breath.
Have patience with me,
Beth

Beth,
I’m in NO hurry, and you shouldn’t be either.
Rest and enjoy time with Jack, etc.  I want you to take at least the rest of the year off.  This will give me time for Pam and the kids as well. Both Pam and I will be taking DNA tests soon, and I expect nothing to get done until January.
Enjoy!
John, IV

On Sat, Nov 14, 2020, at 10:57 PM
Awesome, thanks!
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We Have Turkish Cousins

 
Wed 11/11/2020 6:47 AM
 
Beth,
 
FYI, there are over a thousand Turkish Elcik’s, which is interesting considering the results of my brother’s DNA test. 
 
My brother Jeff took a 23andMe DNA test. Through the 5th generation, our known ancestors came from the Czech Republic and Austria to the United States in the late 1800s. But our family background is more diverse than I ever knew.
 
Quoting 23andMe, “You most likely had a third-great-grandparent, fourth-great-grandparent, fifth-great-grandparent, sixth-great-grandparent, or seventh-great- (or greater) grandparent who was 100% Anatolian. This person was likely born between 1700 and 1820.”
 
So, what is Anatolian?
 
Anatolia, Turkish Anadolu, also called Asia Minor, the peninsula of land today, constitutes the Asian portion of Turkey.
 
This brings to the table new definitions of the meaning of “elcik.”  Here are some from a Turkish dictionary.
 
TurkishEnglish
elcikpull n.
elcikhandgrip n.
elcikhandle n.
elcikglider n.
elcikgrip n.
 
Considering I had been given “zipper” as a meaning for Elcik, these definitions complement that assertion. It simply narrows the scope to the “pull” on a zipper. 🙂 
 
I have referred to my Turkish friends on Facebook as Surname buddies as we share the Elcik surname. In the eBook we are writing called “My Cousins,” I think they qualify as cousins. Wow!
 
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A Couple Things

Tue 11/17/2020 10:51 AM
Beth,
Gaining strength is good, whereas doing more may be a mixed blessing.  Please be sure not to overdo it.
Rather than troubleshoot the old credentials, I created new ones and tested them.  This will get you back in:
  • User name:    XXXXXXX
  • Password:      XXXXXXX
The news about Pete is sad.  Amidst so much optimism and progress in the last 10 years, I know that prostate cancer is scary. If he is declining treatment, it must be serious for him.  I’m glad he has Christine helping. Pete and his support group will be in my prayers for sure.
All the people I reached out to through Ancestry.com messenger have the Elcik surname. I did that because the message was about getting one of the Ilcik Elcik’s to do DNA testing with me. Christine Elcik, in this case, is one of the Ilcik Elcik’s.
Thank you for sharing about Pete.
John, IV
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Elizabeth Chute

Wed 11/25/2020 3:50 PM

I am “over the moon” ecstatic with my package.  There are gems here to keep me busy for some time. Thank you…thank you… thank you!

I’m taking excellent care of everything and setting up a different printer (one with a scanner), so I can make electronic copies and return the originals to you.

Wow!

The first thing I found of significance are clues where to find the gravesite of my Great-grandparents.  We agree on the dates of birth and death for his wife, but her maiden surname exists in official records with at least 6 different spellings. Even her first name varies between Mary and Marie.  Ouch! Finding their gravesite would be a big help.  The online records for the clues you provide didn’t work.  I have a helper in Maine that will visit the cemeteries. Beth (Purinton) Gamache is married to my 1st Cousin Jack “likes” visiting cemeteries and has taken pictures of many gravesites for me.  She is just as passionate as I am about this work.

I’m working on three big projects: the family tree, an eBook, and history, all under the umbrella title: My Cousins. Beth is co-author of the eBook.

Everything will be put on a Flash drive to accommodate the number of documents and photos I have.  Currently, it is about 20  gigabytes.

You are on my list to get one of the first copies.  I even bought your Flash drive using a Black Friday discount to inspire me.  I won’t be ready this Christmas, but I hope to publish sometime next year.

Warmest regards,

John, IV

[Elizabeth Chute, a.k.a. Elizabeth May Adams, is married to Larry Chute. Her parents are Charles Harry Adams, Sr. (1914-1986), and Edna “Ferne” Whitlock. They owned the Adams farm where my mother and Uncle Clyde are buried.  Elizabeth inherited the ancestry documents from her sister Sylvia Elaine “Sally” Adams (1939- ). Sally was married to Nelson Wentworth. Sally and I were kindred spirits when it came to recording family history.  – Dr. John P. Elcik – Editor]

 

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Status Updates

Sun 11/29/2020 1:17 AM
Beth,
First, I wish you were busy for reasons of fun.  Hospitals don’t qualify. You and Jack have had more than your fair share of visits there. No more, please.
The search for the gravesite shouldn’t be a concern of yours right now.
When you are ready, I thought you might act on Elizabeth Chute’s information that they both were buried three days after their deaths at St. Cyril’s Cemetery. John on 27 MAY 1941 and Mary 26 AUG 1936. I should have clarified just how specific her information was. I know that John Sr. and Mary are not in the online database for St. Cyril’s, but I hope you might find someone there to ask if there are individuals who don’t make the online lists. Another possibility is to ask if there could be a gap in their records? This might have been close to their beginnings as a cemetery. Sometimes early records can be problematic.
Finally, I am still sorting the treasure trove of items that Jeff sent me.  In addition to the items mentioned in my last email, I now have my father’s and my original birth certificates. And as a teaser, I have found more Gamache family items. Some are specific to Nancy.  I haven’t heard from her yet. I hope all is well and that they are getting their real estate property back soon.
Both Pam and I are doing DNA testing as our family’s paternal histories (Elcik/McClanahan) stop after the 5th generation.  On the maternal side (Skillin/Strand), the family tree is significantly extended beyond the 5th generation.
I have ordered a slide scanner to make digitalizing the 600 slides possible.  My workload is growing. Setting up the printer that will scan 500 photos is being delayed till after the holidays. My office needs reorganizing to make room for the printer and scanner. 
Bless both you and Jack; please be safe and enjoy the holidays.
John, IV